Posted by keri-jade at ys619.steac021.yorku.ca on February 24, 2000 at 12:26:35:
In Reply to: UMass Trip posted by Jennifer S. on February 24, 2000 at 03:26:34:
Dear Jennifer;
I wish that things like these were not the only catalist for you to come to the board. I wish that you didn't always get to see such a bad side of the board and of us.
Of course you're right. The comments are so truely hideous. Being on a university campus today (although far from the reaches of UMass), allows me the 'privlege' to see how these negative feelings towards women are still being carried out. Wether in achuality (the notices posted randomly that alert us to a new rape or robbery on campus) or in proximity (rave/club posters with scantly dressed japanamation women). I realize how I am just suppost to pass them by and not think of each paper as an attack. I am surprised how many of us are silent.
I'm sorry your visit to UMass had to turn ugly. I am TRUELY sorry that there were people there (or anywhere) who felt that such things would be tollerated (wether at UMass or on the board or that they should somehow be connected to Kevin. I personally avoided said posts because I was previously framilar with the term (but wish I wasn't). And i do so realize that silence does not truely speak but nor is it truely silent. And so I only wished that I had a magical eraser erasor to take it all away. And now I appologuise not only to you and Kevin, but also to the other women and men - the people of the board.
Thank you for your words, wisdom and your compassion. Thank you for speaking and defending the family honour when we did not. i just wish it wasn't always so. and wish never once had to be so.
I do sincearly hope that you do drop back to just chat one day. I know I always get excited when you (or kim - ;)) post. Again I beg you not to think of us all as being as callous as the few. I warn you, may post off topic every once and awhile :).
Here's to sunny days where only beauty lives.
love and much happiness (hopefully forever);
keri-jade
: Hi everyone!
: Someday I am going to drop by the board to say "hi" just for the hell of
: it, unfortunately my posts are usually triggered by some grave injustice
: and today is no exception. As you all know, Kevin and I visited UMass last
: night. We were having a wonderful time till some incredible assholes
: embarrassed themselves by screaming out that beating women up in various
: ways while fucking them was cool. We were disgusted that anyone thought
: that this was remotely socially acceptable. Kevin treats women with the
: utmost respect (I would know) and anyone who doesn't feel the same is not
: welcome at this board. By the time you all read this, the posts referring
: to this situation will have been yanked. Bear with me. I know that the
: members of this board are predominately male and I am certainly not trying
: to alienate you. Believe me, I'm doing you a favor by not allowing this
: sick behavior that just embarrasses your gender to reside here. These guys
: made themselves look like TOTAL pricks. So much so that after like ten
: minutes of their ranting people in the audience walked out because they
: were do disgusted. During the signing afterwards, countless classmates of
: theirs apologized for these moronic few embarrassing their school. This was
: when we found out that recently several women had been brutally attacked on
: campus. Just yikes. Guys, violence towards women is simply not cool.
: Ladies, speak out against anyone who thinks that bashing you is a joke.
: Because you know what, one in three women are raped?! And that's just not
: funny.
: To the rest of you who would never condone such disrespect, the Smith
: family sends you all of our