Posted by ilex at ts003d01.spr-ma.concentric.net on February 24, 2000 at 15:19:47:
In Reply to: UMass Trip posted by Jennifer S. on February 24, 2000 at 03:26:34:
dear jennifer-
not only was i at the umass thing, i was unlucky
enough to be 4 or 5 seats down from THAT kid. i
mentioned this in an earlier post, but i never
attended college so i don't really get that whole
alpha male thing. plus i'm older and have a family
(read: i'm a grownup). it takes a lot to offend
me, but i was just embarrassed when that happened.
i expected some off-color behavior, considering i
was venturing onto a campus that has been dubbed
"zoomass". the kid who took it all too far
couldn't have been more than 18. he didn't even
have facial hair, for chrissake. i hope he dates a
woman like you who will kick his skinny little ass
into shape. here's the ironic part. amherst is
part of what we locals call "the happy valley".
right over the bridge is northampton, which is
(according to the enquirer) the lesbian capital of
america. northampton is ULTRA liberal and the home
of smith college. it's a very comfortable place to
be if you're a woman, and the safest place i've
ever lived. amherst is just a wierd town. all
those horrible things happen on umass, and then
they ban "west side story" from being performed at
the high school because some people found it
offensive. people are fucked. it makes me sad on a
daily basis, and angry enough to be vocal about
it. i'm glad you are such a strong, beautiful
woman, jennifer. there are too few of us out there
because most women keep their mouths shut for fear
of being labeled a bitch or a dyke. if i only had
a dime for every time.....
next time you venture up this way, come to
northampton. i know kevin was here a coule times
last year (words and pictures, pleasant st.
theatre). please don't let umass color your
opinion of an otherwise hip valley. the people who
live here year round HATE those little putzes.
-holly post
easthampton, ma
: Hi everyone!
: Someday I am going to drop by the board to say
"hi" just for the hell of
: it, unfortunately my posts are usually triggered
by some grave injustice
: and today is no exception. As you all know,
Kevin and I visited UMass last
: night. We were having a wonderful time till some
incredible assholes
: embarrassed themselves by screaming out that
beating women up in various
: ways while fucking them was cool. We were
disgusted that anyone thought
: that this was remotely socially acceptable.
Kevin treats women with the
: utmost respect (I would know) and anyone who
doesn't feel the same is not
: welcome at this board. By the time you all read
this, the posts referring
: to this situation will have been yanked. Bear
with me. I know that the
: members of this board are predominately male and
I am certainly not trying
: to alienate you. Believe me, I'm doing you a
favor by not allowing this
: sick behavior that just embarrasses your gender
to reside here. These guys
: made themselves look like TOTAL pricks. So much
so that after like ten
: minutes of their ranting people in the audience
walked out because they
: were do disgusted. During the signing
afterwards, countless classmates of
: theirs apologized for these moronic few
embarrassing their school. This was
: when we found out that recently several women
had been brutally attacked on
: campus. Just yikes. Guys, violence towards women
is simply not cool.
: Ladies, speak out against anyone who thinks that
bashing you is a joke.
: Because you know what, one in three women are
raped?! And that's just not
: funny.
: To the rest of you who would never condone such
disrespect, the Smith
: family sends you all of our