Posted by Smalls at ill1-29b.twcny.rr.com on August 15, 2000 at 17:01:24:
In Reply to: Re: Smalls posted by on August 15, 2000 at 16:38:58:
: Here's a copy of my original post, I recall where I said at the end of it that "I hope these questions aren't too personal"
There's an old saying that applies here... "if you have to ask, don't ask"... if you knew you were going into a sketchy area, you shouldn't've gone there to begin with. This isn't investigative journalism, it's a web board.
: A simple, those questions are too personal, Kevin doesn't usually answer them would do.
But it's not that simple. Sometimes Kevin proffers up very personal aspects of his life... but the point is, when he does, it's of his own volition not because people ask for them.
: I mean, there were some funny scenes in CA and I don't see why he would not want to share them with us if they were a part of their relationship that both of them remember fondly/enjoyed.
Because somethings... especially in old relationships that are past... are just personal, man. Hell if you asked me about ex-girlfriends, I could easily tell you all the bad shit... but I wouldn't tell you a good thing unless you had a gun to my head. You know why? Because the few good things about a relationship gone bad are the few things you still miss... and hence are the few things that still hurt.
: I really don't see what the big deal is about asking how long two people dated...
Frankly, asking anything about the relationship of anyone I don't know quite well seems pretty gauche to me, man. Tacky.
: You are not going to honestly tell me you have never asked anyone that question, are you smalls?
Not of anyone I haven't hung out with extensively, no.
If you have any other questions, please, take it to e-mail.
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