Posted by Sonya at dtg-136.216-16-92.dtgnet.com on April 11, 2002 at 10:37:13:
In Reply to: the question you have to ask yourself is: posted by DRD #37 on April 11, 2002 at 10:17:16:
A car is just a car. You said yourself it was a shitty car. If this bothers you that much, you shouldn't be marrying ANYONE. I learned the same lesson you're learning with my hubby. His whole family is high maintenance. None of them speak English and we spend half of our life handling their finances or hauling them around. Sometimes it becomes overbearing, but you have to stop and think: Would it be worth getting rid of the "problem" if it meant losing your fiancee?
: What's more important, the car or your fiance?
: If it bothers you that much, just tell your fiance how you feel about her sister taking advantage the way she does, and if that starts an argument then I'm sorry. Communication is the key to a successful marriage.