Posted by Ezekial24 at 1cust42.tnt14.syd2.da.uu.net on July 09, 2002 at 12:02:55:
In Reply to: August Arena, Moving to LA., Yoko Lives (with KS)? posted by lojo on July 09, 2002 at 11:20:28:
Ok Kevin gave you some truly cool movies to kick back and watch, live, inspire etc etc, it's only natural to feel a fondness for him.
But the fact is ... even though we want people to be a certain way, they have to make their own choices.
Kevin has stated he is a sell-out and he inspires to make a "Bounce", this came up when alot of people were giving him shit about J-LO and Jersey Girl.
Alot of people want more VA shit, but it's clear Kevin doesn't want that, he wants to move on to greener pastures.
Same shit happened to Lennon when he left the beatles, everyone blamed Yoko.
Did Yoko break up the beatles? Maybe, but John had a mind of his own, and if he wanted to walk, whether influenced by the "Pussy-Whip" or not, he made that decision and fans had to live with it.
Is Kev's wife a Yoko? A bad influence, a USER if you will?
I dunno, only she knows.
You can live with a person for 20 years and find out shit about them you never ever suspected ... life's a gamble.
BUT wait a minute ... what if poor Jen isn't to blame? What if Kev for all these years was sick of NJ and dreamed of living in a quote "Phat Hollywood Palatio" (wrong spelling?) unquote. (CLERKS:TAS Intro)?????
Shit, I know if I could choose anywhere in the US to live it would be Northern Cali, I hear it's beautiful there with low crime rates.
Maybe he doens't want harley to be a Jersey Girl? Maybe he wants her to go to school with other kids who have showbiz ties and become a respected child actor?
WHO KNOWS?
Bottomline, if in your mind Kevin becomes something you no longer feel fond of, simply admit people change and it's their life, their set of cards to play as they see fit, and hold the past (the 5 VA movies) dear in your heart.
Take care of yourself ... and each other. (sorry couldn't resist) ;-)
-Zeke