Posted by ivy/cv at spider-tl024.proxy.aol.com on July 09, 2002 at 13:54:53:
In Reply to: sorry *NT* posted by NigelTufnel on July 09, 2002 at 13:45:53:
: : but yesterday I found out that someone my family knew died...it wasn't unexpected, and was probably for the best, as her life was pretty shitty (she had been dying for four years, her family was the worst I had ever seen)...when I found out she died yesterday, it filled me with such sadness, and I started to cry...why should she, this really nice woman, hafta die? not only die, but be stuck with this horrible life, and horrible family...I mean, it's not fair at all...why didn't her stupid fuckin husband die? (I would say her kids, but one has a wife, the girl is like 7, and well, the other son.....well, maybe him....)....I just don't get it...I mean she's definately better dead...at least she's not in pain...but her poor daughter...her mom will never get her ready for her first dance, her first date...her mom won't be there for her wedding...damn, not even her first period!!!! Ugh, sometimes I just don't get it......
..........Hey, everything happens because its suppose to. Her kids are devastated I'm sure but they are being tested(a test of will). Everything in this life is a test. I like to think of it like its basic training. This is just good and evil playing a game of chess with us. They're picking their teams. The lady was really being given a present- some rest after a long struggle- and her children will be looked after. Everyone has angels assigned to them and we are only faced with challenges our souls are capable of conquering. Its a matter of will. Just say a little prayer for the kids.:)peace and love-lvc
: : Sanam