Posted by Barry, Suave MF at 12-247-46-7.client.attbi.com on July 07, 2002 at 23:49:19:
In Reply to: My shitty life *OT* posted by danlboy on July 07, 2002 at 23:38:15:
It's possible that she's making all this up for a couple of reasons:
1. She cheated on you there. And instead of absorbing all the guilt like she should, she's laying some b.s. trip on you to cover up for it.
2. She's afraid of getting too close to you, and wants a 'way out.'
If she's not making it up, then:
1. Talk to EVERYONE at that party. If you already did that, do it again & extensively.
2. 'Corner' her & make her confess (not by physical force though). If she says "Oh you know what you said!", say "I've said a lot of things about you, but NONE OF THEM WERE BAD! If this is really it between us, then I deserve to know why."
Sorry for you if it is it for the both of you. Being alone from someone sucks, but try having that position pre-determined for you for the rest of your life.