Posted by Isis at cau03.cau.cornell.edu on August 28, 2002 at 08:59:44:
In Reply to: My ex-girlfriend/rOOmaTe has been snOOping Through posted by little dumb fan on August 28, 2002 at 04:26:14:
If she is so suspicious of you that she feels the need to snoop through your stuff, she obviously doesn't trust you. Maybe she has her reasons, maybe she's insecure. If you care about her, try to work it out. If she's crazy anyway, this may be a sign to cut the cord.
Point out that you know she did it and ask her why.
This will either lead to a tearful reconciliation, and hopefully hot sex, or a vicious fight. Either way, you have your conclusion.
: snooping through my files.
: Here's the fucking deal. I was hoping for a little advice.
: I been dating this 22 yr old girl a few months, I'm 26, we move in together with another girl in a house, and we break up a week later. That was like 2 weeks ago. Shit has been kinda weird.
: Tonight I get home from work and I notice that she has been reading my journal files on my computer, and conversations I've had with friends on MSN, really personal shit no one was suppossed to read except me. She has no computer skills or knowledge other than how to snoop, she obviously didn't realise I would find out. Then she writes me this fucked up letter about our realtionship, but fails to mention the fact that she has snooped through my most personal of personal files without my persmission.
: What should I do?
: Move out? Confront her? Go off on her? Stay? Pretend it didn't happen?
: Please, give me some feedback...
: And I promise I will not post another WAY off-topic post again... I really respect people's opinions on this board and I was hoping for some meaningful advice... :(