Posted by little dumb fan at va-lexington1a-253.chvlva.adelphia.net on August 28, 2002 at 15:52:56:
In Reply to: Re: My ex-girlfriend/rOOmaTe has been snOOping Thr posted by SexyJ on August 28, 2002 at 08:58:22:
: why would you move in together if youve only been with each other a couple of months?? were you set on destroying this?
Apparently. We just were getting along great. I'd been celibate for 2 years. I thought it would be heavenly. Oh lord, how friggin wrong was I? I didn't want to destroy it consciously...
: whos name is on the lease? whos idea to move in with each other?
: well live n learn!
all 3 of our names are on the lease. I think I have 60 days to break my end of the contract, I haven't confirmed this with realtor yet. I will do this tomorrow.
it was a mutual decision for us to move in together. We had a seemingly very mutal relatoinship at one point, it was special, I thought. Anyhows, I put way too much stock into it. I been doing A LOT of living in that case...
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: : snooping through my files.
: : Here's the fucking deal. I was hoping for a little advice.
: : I been dating this 22 yr old girl a few months, I'm 26, we move in together with another girl in a house, and we break up a week later. That was like 2 weeks ago. Shit has been kinda weird.
: : Tonight I get home from work and I notice that she has been reading my journal files on my computer, and conversations I've had with friends on MSN, really personal shit no one was suppossed to read except me. She has no computer skills or knowledge other than how to snoop, she obviously didn't realise I would find out. Then she writes me this fucked up letter about our realtionship, but fails to mention the fact that she has snooped through my most personal of personal files without my persmission.
: : What should I do?
: : Move out? Confront her? Go off on her? Stay? Pretend it didn't happen?
: : Please, give me some feedback...
: : And I promise I will not post another WAY off-topic post again... I really respect people's opinions on this board and I was hoping for some meaningful advice... :(