Posted by David St. Hubbins at 60.westvalleycity-02rh15rt-ut.dial-access.att.net on November 13, 2002 at 02:51:18:
In Reply to: OT - Does this make sense to you? posted by Chronically Blunt on November 12, 2002 at 09:18:38:
: OK, so last night I'm sitting at home, and my girlfriend's cell phone rings. Turns out, it's a guy she works with, and whom I used to work with. Now, I've known this guy for 10 years. And, without going into much detail, I can say that he's not very smart, has a history of mistreating women, and getting himself into trouble.
: So naturally, being that I love the girl, I tell her that it isn't in her best interest, and I would prefer she didn't, assosciate with him. And, as the normal course goes, she says I'm being possessive, they're just friends and that she doesn't see why she can't hang out with him.
: Consequently, a girl that I used to coach, is going to be in town this weekend, and I told her that I would meet her for dinner. Now, this girl is 19, and I've known her since she was 10. I'm 24. So my girlfriend insists that these two situations are parallel, which I obviously say they are not.
: So my question is, which of the following roads do I take.
: A. Leave it alone, and take the chance that she gets hurt.
: B. Give her an ultimatum and forbid her from seeing him.
: C. Just beat the ever loving shit out of him, and hope that ends it.
: Please advise.
: Peas