Posted by SexyJ at 65.202.63.178 on November 13, 2002 at 17:02:24:
In Reply to: Thanks J posted by MichelleInMichigan on November 13, 2002 at 16:55:57:
: How would you word it that you have concerns, but that you are still willing? Adam pointed out making sure that boundaries are drawn, which I think is a good idea.
~~you word as best and as honestly as you can.
: How would you broach that topic with your mom? Would it even be a issue?
~~if its on your mind than yes its an issue
: My mom is known for sneaking around, looking at my banking information, file drawers, etc. My Dad caught her last time they were down here. So, I don't think my worries of invaded privacy are completely ridiculous.
~~i would let her know that you know she does this. tell her if she continues she cannot stay or if you catch her, you dont want her to stay there. def set rules. it IS your house. but if you are THAT uncomfortable with her there, tell her no but tell her WHY!
like you said, we dont the whole story. do what YOU feel is right.
: And by god, I wouldn't want her finding my box of sex toys!
: Kidding. Just kidding.