Posted by Kimberlieo at 209.50.129.181 on December 02, 2002 at 15:57:34:
In Reply to: Re: Questions posted by innerinsanity666 on December 02, 2002 at 15:23:45:
Ok. I hated to hear this when I was your age. I really hated it. But things are different when your older. Yuck there I said it. Now I feel old. Damn it.
Something changes in a person somewhere around 20-23 yrs.
Before then, it's like you are not yet who your gonna be. Your just figuring things out. I made alot of stupid mistakes around this age (hey this is kinda some of what Chasing Amy is about).
My hard to take advice.
Stop sleeping around.
You need to be able to respect yourself. You don't need to one day meet the girl of your dreams, who you want to spend the rest of your life with and have to tell her you have Herpes, or Crabs, or worse. No protection is full proof. I am not saying never have sex (I could not follow that advice myself and do not want to be a hypocrate), I am just saying be careful. 4 in one week is not careful.
Sex with some one you care about can be REALLLY GREAT SEX!!! Really great sex..... is there a better resson for anything? J/K. Really when the emotions are there the sex is on a higher level. It is the difference between making love and having sex.
Having sex = getting off
Making love = caring about the other person getting off..... and oh so much more.
Personally I think it is damn skanky to sleep around, I don't care if you are a guy or a girl. If I found out that a guy I was interested in had slept with 4 girls in a week, I would not give him the time of day.
In every relationship I have been in the conversation of "so how many have you...?" has come up. Speaking as a female, I am not impressed by large numbers here....The guys in the locker room may be but really who do you want to impress. And I can usually spot a lie.
I can go on.. but I don't know if you want to hear it. If you do, just say so.
Kimberlieo