Posted by VioLenT BoB (Dr.J0nes) at njtnt-1-293.dialup.enter.net on December 07, 2002 at 17:05:51:
In Reply to: Your personal opinions on a personal problem.... posted by Ember on December 07, 2002 at 01:29:56:
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: My best friend in the whole world is having a problem:
: Today marks the 3 year "anniversary" of her relationship...And she's kind of cheated on him (with her "ex"). But she has no remourse or guilt. ONE of the reasons is: "Save monogamy for marriage."
If she's saving monogamy for marriage, there is no way that she is in a committed relationship, henceforeward therefore she is no longer entitled to any celebration whatsoever of an 'anniversary'.
The fact that she has no remorse or guilt about the affair only proves than she is an unconscientious gutterslut.
Its not really your place to tell her 'other' about it, but he'll find out one way or the other. Unless he's the kind of dolt that let's his three year old girlfriend make a cuckold out of him with a dude she dated a third of a decade previous, then he just deserves it.
Either way, your friend is going to be saving 'monogamy' for marriage for a long time. No one marries a whore. Not the guy who was cheated on and certainly not the guy she ran around on a three year relationship with. At least the guilty male party knows better. They always do.
She deserves to lose it all....and then, y'know maybe she could fall off a cliff and die on impact....but that's just how I feel.