Posted by Raikus at pcp01907795pcs.bbridg01.fl.comcast.net on December 08, 2002 at 10:52:56:
In Reply to: My mum is dead posted by cclarke on December 08, 2002 at 08:19:29:
: I just realised it now, I'm in tears. FUCK
: what is left now
There will be no one who can utter anything to comfort you. Losing a close family member--especially a mother is one of the worst feelings in the world. Everyone says "reflect on the good times" in these situations, and they are correct, but it is always hard when you just realize you won't be able to talk to them, or see them anymore. I personally believe that you will, someday. That if you do your best to live life in accordance with others, you'll be able to see all those you've lost in the past. I'm not trying to push my view on you; I just know that this has helped me with those I lost. Whatever your views, just remember your mother for who she was. You may not be able to thank her for all her help throught the years, but you can show her by living by the example she set for you. Unfortunately it is the way of things. Sons and daughters are meant to lose their parents at some point in their lives. It is a terrible thing to cope with. I wish you the best in the present and in the future. And just remember, she will always be with you--in spirit, if not in body--to help you with those challenges in the future. My thoughts and prayers are with you.