Posted by Runshouse21 at 24-29-108-5.nyc.rr.com on January 28, 2003 at 12:10:21:
In Reply to: Get away for a few days posted by Kimberlieo on January 28, 2003 at 12:07:09:
: Seriously, take a 3-4 day weekend, and go somewhere romantic, like a Bed and Breakfast. Without anyone else. Get back to basics. Do something special for her, write a poem, flowers, song, anything. Don't wiat for valentines day, don't do it because of some holiday, do it just because!! Get back to what life was like before you were married. I (sadly) speak from experiance. Tell her you love her, and mean it damn it.
: Good god man do it!!!!
: Do you love this woman? When was the last time, you made her feel special? She is not posting here or I would ask her the same regarding makeing you feel special.
: Life becomes really hard, when you can't or won't care anymore. I would spare even a stranger on a web board that pain if I could.
How come he has to do all this for her. Granted I think its the right thing to do but how come women never try and romance men. I would like to be surprised romantically or pampered every now and then too.
It just seems that men have to shoulder this obligation a whole lot more than women.
Jason