Posted by pickleweasel at ppp37.tc-22.roc-pt.ny.localnet.com on July 19, 2003 at 14:43:17:
In Reply to: oh Heather... posted by pickleweasel on July 19, 2003 at 10:54:03:
Not that I really know what I'm talking about...but have you ever heard the song "Fighter" by Christina Aguilera? I LOVE this song! It is such an upper for me. Whenever I'm feeling down, for whatever reason (have trouble just dealing with daily life...have SEVERE social anxiety disorder, so I kind of know how you feel, in that respect). Just started taking Paxil...hoping it will do me some good. Anyway, when I'm feeling really depressed, I listen to that song, and I feel sooooo much better. Try it, it works. Also, the song, "I Will Survive" by Gloria Gaynor (if you're into that kind of music). And if you don't like either of these suggestions (because they're pretty stupid, I know), you could try writing a song of your own, or even a poem...expressing how you feel. You could stand in front of the mirror and sing it at the top of your lungs...make up a little dance. That's just what I would do (: Hope you feel better soon. I think that's a bit insensitive of Scott to continue to post here (especially when he flirts with other girls!) You deserve better than that! There are other fish in the sea...you just have to get out there and find them. Hmmmm...maybe if I took my own advice (never had a boyfriend because I'm too damn shy :/ ) At least you know what love is...at least you have that experience, if nothing else. You will always have those wonderful memories to look back on. Not that your life won't improve in some way or another, because I'm SURE it will. You just have to give it time. Don't feel sorry for yourself, BE STRONG!! And whatever you do, don't blame yourself! No one is to blame here...these things just happen. You are Heatherondo and you can do ANYTHING you set your mind to! Your happiness does not depend on Scott, or any other man for that matter. Just remember that...