Posted by Second Gunman at 164.51.166.57 on September 19, 2003 at 15:44:24:
In Reply to: im in the same situatuion as in Chasing Amy, HELP posted by filmlover on September 19, 2003 at 15:34:20:
: hi kevin,
: my names francisco. ive met a girl and shes just like that girl in Chasing Amy. She has a long list of lovers both guys and girls and so far the relationship is going great but i do not want to screw it up like Holden did in your film. The last few relationships she's had were with girls and the first guy in a while that shes been with. I need help on how to not to ruin this relationship and how to make it a great one for me and her. If you have any knowledge in this feild of expertise, please help me out.
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: Thank you very much,
: Francisco Martins
Honest advice?
Take the relationship as you would with any other. Worrying about the little inane aspects of things can only bog you down from really getting to know the person and letting yourself be totally content in your relationship. Make sure you let it be known of your insecurities and doubts. Holding anything back can only lead to hurt and resentment (or either)...basically...feelings that will get harbored inside and be let out at the wrong times and causing everything to go sour. Remember to take things with a grain of salt. Instead of wondering about the girl's past...think more along the lines of your own future. Can you be happy with her? Aside from her faults...can you be happy with yourself by being with her? It's all up to you. Your choice.