Posted by Barry, Suave MF at 4.19.96.69 on March 23, 2004 at 15:32:20:
In Reply to: I disagree... posted by nogoodnik on March 23, 2004 at 15:29:51:
: : I think it's better to not have said it than to have said it & have it thrown back in your face somehow.
: ...ya gotta throw it out there. At least once. If it doesn't work, THEN you can get all Nietzsche about it.
...but only if you're not pushing yourself to do it or to push anything onto your partner or the relationship. If it feels right, do it.