Posted by skeeballpete at bordermanager.barton.ac.uk on May 27, 2002 at 06:32:42:
In Reply to: i think... posted by unique on May 27, 2002 at 06:25:20:
: they tried to use me as an emotional crutch and it back fired on them. i think they wanted someone to be happy for them and i didn't fulfill the fantasy for them. they're own parents aren't exactly on their side either. karen's mom said she'd be more than happy to drive her to the "doctor" to take care of it!
: i like ed, he's like the son i'm not old enough to have (he's 21 and i'm 26). he thinks of me as his mom away from mom (his mom is in california) and he despirately wants my approval, but i can't give it to him and i really hurt him when i told him that. i really think they should have waited. they fight all the time, i can't imagine raising a child in that kind of environment.
the situation i mean..i see what you mean that they needed someone to be on their side and tell them its gonna be ok....but we all know sometimes its not gonna be ok....and its must be really hard for you too if this person is close to you and seeks your approval