Posted by SexyJ at 65.202.63.178 on June 18, 2002 at 11:04:07:
In Reply to: Just like anything else...a little of both. posted by Isis on June 18, 2002 at 11:00:19:
the only thing that deters me from that is that my niece, ever since she was a baby, she has always been drawn to men. shed rather go to the guy than the girl. she is 4 now and she has about 10 'boyfriends' whom she has already kissed. im sure that its not the 'sexual feeling' that we as adults feel but non the less she loves the cock!! ok sorry bout that but she has always been a 'guys girl'.
: I don't think anyone is born completely anything-sexual, because you're not a sexual being until you hit puberty and start getting sexual feelings. I think people are born with certain tendencies that may or may not develop into a sexual practice.
: I also think the presence of bisexuality -- and it's not a rare thing -- adequately proves that there is no "gay gene".
: Really, what does it matter? The whole thing is a political distinction, a defense against Senator Helms and friends, so that sexuality can be considered a legally protectable right -- like ethnicity, or a disability. "They were born that way, they can't help it".
: I don't think it matters whether one is born or chooses to be gay -- the essential thing is that it's your right to do with your body what you want to, as long as it ain't violent.