I got it, just don't completely buy it.

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Posted by Frankman at penu0076.cnet.navy.mil on September 18, 2003 at 13:47:34:

In Reply to: The point you missed posted by AshFan on September 18, 2003 at 13:39:43:

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: : I don't know, is something as little as offering to have a bisexual threesome that damaging?

: Was that she was beyond that in her life. She wanted to settle down with the person she loved, and found out that she could never do that with him.

+++++No, I got that. He thought that the situation required it. She didn't want to do it, knew it would forever alter their dynamic in a negative way. The ulitmatum was laid out...

I understood it fine. I just (perhaps niavely) think that saying "you were right, I'm sorry" to her and "dude, don't ever let me get that crazy" to him and everything could have returned to a near status quo. Even if it would have been impossible for all three to interact again I would have thought the friendship could have been mended.

I mean, really, we all know that guy who disappears/goes odd when a girl is in the equation. He gets welcomed back into the fold and is given hell for his transgressions.

A few humourous smackdowns do a lot for the healing process IMHO.

thanks for your input,
Frank

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Re: I got it, just don't completely buy it. CoreyY 14:16:12 9/18/03 (3)
- Very Impressive Frankman 14:26:33 9/18/03 (1)
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: : : : : I don't know, is something as little as offering to have a bisexual threesome that damaging? : : Was that she was beyond that in her life. She wanted to settle down with the person she loved, and found out that she could never do that with him. : +++++No, I got that. He thought that the situation required it. She didn't want to do it, knew it would forever alter their dynamic in a negative way. The ulitmatum was laid out... : I understood it fine. I just (perhaps niavely) think that saying "you were right, I'm sorry" to her and "dude, don't ever let me get that crazy" to him and everything could have returned to a near status quo. Even if it would have been impossible for all three to interact again I would have thought the friendship could have been mended. : I mean, really, we all know that guy who disappears/goes odd when a girl is in the equation. He gets welcomed back into the fold and is given hell for his transgressions. : A few humourous smackdowns do a lot for the healing process IMHO. : thanks for your input, : Frank

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