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Posted by NEWMAN at webcacheh03a.cache.pol.co.uk on January 21, 2002 at 14:26:23:

And it sort of involves VA...

I know there will be a few if not alot of posts with the general subjet line of 'What a loser LOL' or 'HAHAHAHA' etc. if I get the response I'm hoping for, But I hope at least a few mature people who listen can help, maybe some reds like Vincent or Bryan.

I still go to school, and within the concrete confines of this prison I call 'home' or 'hell' when I'm feeling honest, I have no friends.

I'm not happy about it; but I'll admit as i'mnot sure it's all my fault.

The question this post (and it's poster) are trying to ask, is; What is more important; Individuality or Unity.

Your knee-jerk reaction maybe to say 'individuality' as it's something we've all been taught. But think harder and give me a reaon why--I need it.

I have 'friends'. I eat my lunch with them, I sometimes spend my weekends playing at their houses et cetera. But I don't really share their interests, and I sacifice mine to hang out with them.

To be crystal clear, I don't like them.

I don't want them as friends; I want them for the sake of friends. To be like everybody else. Sure, they have friends.

I like VA, horror movies, SNL-type comedy movies, Comic books and other geekly stuff. NOONE ELSE I KNOW DOES.

The thing is, two people I know saw Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back, and they liked it. Would I be cool with them? NO.

One is a guy who laughed cos it has 'dirty words' in it, by my guess.

The other, I could never like, as he is a jerk who like anything with weed in it, and yet he bullies other kids harshly.

One kid, who I like but seem ashamed to hand aroud with, is Ben. Ben likes comics too and simpsons stuff too.

Now the aforementioned other guy gave this guy a wedgie. Funny eh? Not really, this wegie was right outside a classroom, and poor Ben was left crying while half the class pointed and laughed. I helped him up. So now you see; I hate the other guy and Ben is picked on. I'm not as low as him on the social chain, but maybe I should be.

I sorely need your help. DO I sacrifice my hobbies and interests to have 'friends' or do I stay a loner/loser, who is happy with himself.

Seems like an easy decision, but it's not.

Think about it,

Follow Ups:

Serious (and very long) response... wryn 15:08:19 1/21/02 (1)
- to add. . . Russbound 16:15:27 1/21/02 (0)
loner loser herdthinner 14:46:43 1/21/02 (1)
- Damn, the board hosed my subject herdthinner 15:58:25 1/21/02 (0)
How old are you? Oi-not so Punk 14:42:19 1/21/02 (0)
listen to my story, and look for inspirtation DRD #37 14:40:19 1/21/02 (0)
Friends are for uninteresting people... Isis 14:38:55 1/21/02 (0)
I went throught he same thing in middle school... ebass420 14:38:05 1/21/02 (0)
Choose whatever you want... Bartleby72 14:35:38 1/21/02 (0)
Mr Jingles: The gay Baden Powell 14:35:05 1/21/02 (0)

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: And it sort of involves VA... : I know there will be a few if not alot of posts with the general subjet line of 'What a loser LOL' or 'HAHAHAHA' etc. if I get the response I'm hoping for, But I hope at least a few mature people who listen can help, maybe some reds like Vincent or Bryan. : I still go to school, and within the concrete confines of this prison I call 'home' or 'hell' when I'm feeling honest, I have no friends. : I'm not happy about it; but I'll admit as i'mnot sure it's all my fault. : The question this post (and it's poster) are trying to ask, is; What is more important; Individuality or Unity. : Your knee-jerk reaction maybe to say 'individuality' as it's something we've all been taught. But think harder and give me a reaon why--I need it. : I have 'friends'. I eat my lunch with them, I sometimes spend my weekends playing at their houses et cetera. But I don't really share their interests, and I sacifice mine to hang out with them. : To be crystal clear, I don't like them. : I don't want them as friends; I want them for the sake of friends. To be like everybody else. Sure, they have friends. : I like VA, horror movies, SNL-type comedy movies, Comic books and other geekly stuff. NOONE ELSE I KNOW DOES. : The thing is, two people I know saw Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back, and they liked it. Would I be cool with them? NO. : One is a guy who laughed cos it has 'dirty words' in it, by my guess. : The other, I could never like, as he is a jerk who like anything with weed in it, and yet he bullies other kids harshly. : One kid, who I like but seem ashamed to hand aroud with, is Ben. Ben likes comics too and simpsons stuff too. : Now the aforementioned other guy gave this guy a wedgie. Funny eh? Not really, this wegie was right outside a classroom, and poor Ben was left crying while half the class pointed and laughed. I helped him up. So now you see; I hate the other guy and Ben is picked on. I'm not as low as him on the social chain, but maybe I should be. : I sorely need your help. DO I sacrifice my hobbies and interests to have 'friends' or do I stay a loner/loser, who is happy with himself. : Seems like an easy decision, but it's not. : Think about it, : AM

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