Posted by Chasing Mallclerks at pcp03614513pcs.benslm01.pa.comcast.net on July 18, 2003 at 23:44:00:
In Reply to: There's nothing wrong with being angry. posted by Smalls on July 18, 2003 at 23:39:57:
...Let yourself begin to heal. It is a process, and letting yourself be mad is part of it.
: Just remember that.
: I know a lot of people who have been through what you're going through and... they cheated themselves from the healing benefit of being mad... and it made the healing process a lot longer and a lot rougher.
: Let yourself be mad. Don't avoid being mad just to "be mature about it" and cheat yourself of the healing. Sometimes to be able to stop loving someone, you gotta hate them for a while.
: There's nothing wrong with that.
: Mike